Today I am grateful for my guy.
No, that’s a lie. Everyday I am grateful for my guy, but today is his birthday so today I’m telling you about it.
He is silly and kind, child-like (not to be confused with childish) and flirty, intense and playful, so smart about somethings and so adorably clueless about others. He’s a sharp dresser, an amazing communicator, a great theatre date, friendly, silly, considerate, silly, sexy, silly … did I mention silly?
I’m so glad he is in my life. Before he became my partner he was a wonderful friend to me who helped me through a few really rough times. Now that we’re together we’re still fantastic friends but it’s just so much better. He makes me smile and laugh when I’m having a bad day, he holds me and cries with me when I am sad, he puts up with my ridiculous theatre schedules, he comes to visit me wherever I go to work (including Winnipeg in February!), he teaches me about languages and history, he takes care of my Smurfs (it’s an iPhone game), he tells me silly stories and sings me silly songs.
A friend once asked me, “Does he make you feel Happy? Beautiful? Safe?” I love this question and yes, he absolutely does, every single one. Even in my anxieties I feel safe (but anxious … don’t make me explain it.)
Now, to balance my praise of him I will also say that he isn’t perfect, but neither am I. No one is. I still love him even with his imperfections and sometimes even because of them.
So today, on the day he was born, I am grateful for my guy.
Happy Birthday my Love.
